{"id":23,"date":"2020-09-01T13:03:30","date_gmt":"2020-09-01T18:03:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/?p=23"},"modified":"2020-09-01T13:03:30","modified_gmt":"2020-09-01T18:03:30","slug":"premise-out-of-the-blue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/2020\/09\/premise-out-of-the-blue\/","title":{"rendered":"(Premise) Out of the Blue"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>U OF I BLOG #1\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Coming to the University of Iowa on short notice and coping in a new environment with several obstacles, both personal and global.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re born. You grow up. You die. That&#8217;s the cycle of life.<\/p>\n<p>They say somewhere in between, you get an education, you find love, and you become successful. Funny how it somehow happens, but the path is never that simple.<\/p>\n<p>Take the pandemic for example. People say it has negatively impacted their lives, from losing their job to causing depression to making an ever growing situation even more difficult.<\/p>\n<p>I cannot say the same for mine: the pandemic has saved my life.<\/p>\n<p>It is not an upper-hand I have in saying so but rather a perspective I\u2019ve gained from it.<\/p>\n<p>Before the pandemic, I was anti-social, dependent, loathing, and overall irresponsible. Then, suddenly, in the midst of a surge in infections, the collapse of the economy, and the struggle of society, I was in summer Iowa, alone, broke, and in a college that I was my last choice.<\/p>\n<p>The University of Iowa is far from a bad school, in all honesty, it was a school I wanted to attend, but I succumbed to the external validity of attending somewhere &#8220;prestigious&#8221;. I guess you can count that on the list of bad traits I had before the pandemic was in full swing.<\/p>\n<p>Barely anyone was here. There were enough people to fit 2-3 people on each floor of Stanley Hall. You could call it peaceful but you can also call it isolated. A pin dropping could be equivalent to the earth quaking.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t deal with it very well. Maybe because I already had to ration 30 meals in 60 days or maybe because I felt totally uncomfortable or maybe because I couldn\u2019t deal with being in the middle of nowhere without any outside help.<\/p>\n<p>But, in fact, the problem was that I knew no one and was scared to meet anyone. It was so easy to tell myself, &#8220;Well, I have a mask, so it&#8217;ll be hard anyways&#8221;, &#8220;There&#8217;s really no point in interacting&#8221;,\u00a0 or &#8220;I should just focus on school&#8221;. So easy, yet so regressive.<\/p>\n<p>For two whole months, I took shelter in my room. It was as if the outside world was a nuclear background to the safe, almost indestructible bunker of Room 403. Nearing the end of July and the notification that I&#8217;d be moving into Mayflower on August 8th, I decided to make a change.<\/p>\n<p>What is the use of going to college just for the education? Masks may make things more difficult but they don&#8217;t make you mute. I think that&#8217;s a leading cause of why it was easier to make friends in a place I&#8217;ve never been before.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s what I did. Around the first week of people moving in, it was as simple as introducing myself and asking to exchange contacts. To be honest, I was scared; at first, I was doubtful I would be accepted so easily under such circumstances, but the results were quite the opposite: friendly equals friendly.<\/p>\n<p>You start to realize everyone else is just as scared too. Everyone has doubts, everyone loses some confidence. Especially in a new place, in a new school, in a new life. The pandemic has made that even more so.<\/p>\n<p>So, even if you&#8217;re just out of blue as I am, don&#8217;t let it prevent you from missing out on a great college experience, COVID-19 or not.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>U OF I BLOG #1\u00a0 Coming to the University of Iowa on short notice and coping in a new environment with several obstacles, both personal and global. You\u2019re born. You grow up. You die. That&#8217;s the cycle of life. They say somewhere in between, you get an education, you find love, and you become successful. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/2020\/09\/premise-out-of-the-blue\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">(Premise) Out of the Blue<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":118,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,5,1],"tags":[9,11,10],"class_list":["post-23","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-academics","category-campuslife","category-general","tag-blog","tag-life","tag-university"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/118"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29,"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23\/revisions\/29"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.admissions.uiowa.edu\/andre\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}